ARE YOU CLEAR ABOUT WHAT YOU REALLY WANT IN LIFE & LOVE?
YES ✔️ Well done! You are connected to your truth, and aren't afraid to be led by the yearning in your heart for the kind of life and partnership you truly want. This clarity and courage brings your man to his knees and summons his deep respect for you as a woman. You winning in yourself makes him feel like he's winning too.
NO ❌ Hmm. Many women are afraid to let themselves feel that yearning in their hearts - because to feel what you don't believe you can have is too painful. So you push it down and cut yourself off from it. But the problem is, it doesn't go away, and you may be unconsciously expecting him to feel what you can't feel, and give you what you're afraid to clearly ask for. You give hints and give subtle cues, but men don't hear those. He can feel the unhappiness you feel every time you look at him, which, in his mind, tells him he's failing, which he protects himself from by checking out. Which just feeds into your disappointment - and around and around you go.