Frequently Asked Questions
What results can I expect, and how quickly can I expect to see changes?
Coaching is always a two-way street. On our end, we put tremendous energy into serving our clients and being with them every step of their journey. But on their end, they need to keep showing up for THEMSELVES at each of those steps. And when they do, most women start to experience a feeling of coming home to themselves very quickly, if not immediately (as in, the first week or two). What they experience next is the people or person closest to them start to naturally respond to their new energy. In our community, transformation happens when you stay devoted to yourself and consistently show up. In our intensive program, the transformation happens more rapidly and deeply, with most women experiencing immediate, profound shifts.
How do I enroll in the Led by Love program?
Access to the intensive program is by invitation only, as we need to ensure you and your situation are a good fit for this level of transformation.
Many women start with The Community, which you can join immediately. This gives you a chance to experience our work firsthand, connect with other women on the same journey, and begin your transformation right away. As you engage with the community, you'll naturally discover whether the intensive is the right next step for you—and we'll be able to see if you're ready for that deeper level of support.
What makes Led by Love different?
Real Couple, Real Perspective
As a couple who live and practice what we teach every day, we provide a living example of how the principles we use work. Our clients get to see us together and receive coaching from us both at the same time, which provides powerful masculine and feminine perspectives on what they are struggling with.
Embodiment (Transformation Not Just Information)
Relationship advice/tips/concepts are not special. You can find these within seconds through the phone in your hand. What you cannot get through books, social media, or even AI, is Embodiment. Sharif and Beth have academic and professional backgrounds in Physiology, but more importantly have spent their entire lives working with their bodies physically (through martial arts and dance, respectively) and energetically with the emotional/trauma healing processes they now teach. The patterns you want to change live in your body MORE than your mind. Which is why talk-based therapy is so limited and takes months if not years to create change that the embodiment exercises in Led by Love achieve in weeks. If you think about the relationship pattern you are struggling with, you will find it brings a specific energy into the body. In our coaching sessions, we guide you into how to witness and move that energy so it no longer has power over you.
From The Heart of an Avoidant Man
Being founded by a man (Sharif) who has coached hundreds of men, and healed his own traumas as a man who used to be the classic ‘avoidant man’ himself, our clients get an insight into the masculine mind and heart that is extremely rare. What is also special about this is that Sharif does NOT throw men under the bus like some male relationship coaches who work with women and appear to be driven by their need for female approval. If your man is weak, immature, or has low integrity, Sharif will tell you. But at the same time, he recognizes that in every man is a King that wants to be known, and specializes in helping women become the inspiration for that king to emerge, without mothering, caretaking, or rescuing.
The Power of The Circle
The group nature of our work is a major part of what makes it so powerful. Being in a safe, loving, supportive space with like-minded and like-hearted women, that is expertly held by dedicated coaches, is an extremely powerful recipe for transformation. When women gather and support each other in this way, magical things happen!
Your Higher Power
While Led by Love is not religion-specific, it has its core Love as a Higher Power. We know that real transformation is impossible without this. And is why women come into Led by Love wanting to heal their relationship patterns, but almost always leave with much more.
Put You First
We work from the 'inside out.' Unlike many relationship approaches that focus on trying to change your partner or fix the relationship directly, we help women come home to themselves first. When you prioritize filling your own cup and shift from a place of constant doing to being, your loving relationship with yourself naturally reflects outward. This is why we see such beautiful relationship transformations usually within weeks, even when the patterns have caused heartbreak for decades. The simple truth is that when you radically come home to yourself and energetically shift your focus from fixing the relationship to nourishing yourself, that's when the "borderline miraculous" transformations happen that we get to witness weekly.
What do ‘Spiritual Partnership’ and ‘Conscious Partnership’ mean?
We use these terms interchangeably to describe the kind of safe, loving, healthy relationship (that has Higher Power Love as its basis) that we help our clients create or attract into their lives.
Is Led by Love Christian?
While not exclusively Christian, most of our women (90%+) are Christian.
The principles we work with are all backed up beautifully by Scripture, but we aren’t necessarily teaching from Scripture.
At the heart of what we teach is the concept of the love that comes from/is a Higher Power. In this work, we use the generic term ‘Big Love’ to describe this, but for most of our clients (and ourselves), this is simply God.
Do you work with same-sex couples?
Our area of expertise and experience is in man-woman relationships, and the content of the program is languaged with the assumption that the woman we are working with is that way inclined. However, we have had some past clients who were in relationship with a woman, but recognized that they (the client) were the more ‘feminine’ partner, which is important for the process to work.
Does this work for open relationships?
We find that the complexity of these relationships is difficult to work with. Also, we have found that many women, when they come home to themselves and align with the truth in their heart, discover that what they really want is to be in a safe, loving, monogamous relationship.
How can your process be for both single and married women?
The internal shifts that free women from the painful relationship patterns they’ve been stuck in are ultimately the same whether that woman is currently in relationship or not.
At certain points in the Led by Love program, women who are married or single do slightly different exercises. But ultimately, the shifts within those women that cause her to become the light that brings a man (whether that’s a husband or a new man in the near future) into devotion are the same.
Please note: that we only work with women who are EITHER in a long-term realationship/marriage OR single and ready to call a man into their lives… but we do not work with women who are ‘emotionally entangled’ with a guy who has never actually committed to them.
Are your programs online or in-person?
All of our programs are online with a combination of live video coaching (Zoom) and online schools with dedicated lessons and modules. We also hold regular in-person gatherings and transformational events for our clients.
Will I work directly with Beth & Sharif?
Yes - in both The Community and The Program :)