Frequently Asked Questions
What results can I expect, and how quickly can I expect to see changes?
Coaching is always a two-way street. On our end, we put tremendous energy into serving our clients and being with them every step of their journey. But on their end, they need to keep showing up for THEMSELVES at each of those steps. And when they do, most women start to experience a feeling of coming home to themselves very quickly if not immediately (as in, the first week or two). What they experience next is the people or person closest to them start to naturally respond to their new energy. Most women start to see those positive responses while they are in the program, but for some it comes a bit later (for example, sometimes husbands need a minute to believe the change is even real!). Either way, ALL women who commit to themselves leave the program feeling like they have fallen in love with themselves (often for the first time in their lives ❤️). You can check out our Client Case Studies for examples of what most of our women experience.
What makes Led by Love different?
As a couple who live and practice what we teach every day, we provide a living example of how the principles we use work. Our clients get to see us together and receive coaching from us both at the same time, which provides powerful masculine and feminine perspectives on what they are struggling with.
Transformation over information. Relationship advice/tips/concepts are not special. You can find these within seconds through the phone in your hand. What you cannot get through books, social media, or even AI, is firstly, Embodiment. Sharif and Beth have academic and professional backgrounds in Physiology, but more importantly have spent their entire lives working with their bodies physically (through martial arts and dance, respectively) and energetically with the emotional/trauma healing processes they now teach. The patterns you want to change live in your body MORE than your mind. Which is why talk-based therapy is so limited and takes months if not years to create change that the embodiment exercises in Led by Love achieve in weeks. If you think about the relationship pattern you are struggling with, you will find it brings a specific energy into the body. In our coaching sessions, we guide you into how to witness and move that energy so it no longer has power over you. Secondly, the group nature of our programs is a huge part of what makes them so powerful. Being in a group of like-minded and like-hearted women, that is expertly held by dedicated coaches, is an extremely powerful recipe for transformation. When women gather and support each other in this way, magical things happen!
Being founded by a man (Sharif) who has coached hundreds of men, and healed his own traumas, our clients get an insight into the masculine mind and heart that is extremely rare. What is also special about this is that Sharif does NOT throw men under the bus like some male relationship coaches who work with women and appear to be driven by their need for female approval. If your man is weak, immature, or has low integrity, Sharif will tell you. But at the same time, he recognizes that in every man is a King that wants to be known, and specializes in helping women become the inspiration for that king to emerge, without mothering, caretaking, or rescuing.
While Led by Love is not religion-specific, it has its core Love as a Higher Power. We know that real transformation is impossible without this. And is why women come into Led by Love wanting to heal their relationship patterns, but almost always leave with much more.
We work from the 'inside out.' Unlike many relationship approaches that focus on trying to change your partner or fix the relationship directly, we help women come home to themselves first. When you prioritize filling your own cup and shift from a place of constant doing to being, your loving relationship with yourself naturally reflects outward. This is why we see such beautiful relationship transformations usually within weeks, even when the patterns have caused heartbreak for decades. The simple truth is that when you radically come home to yourself and energetically shift your focus from fixing the relationship to nourishing yourself, that's when the "borderline miraculous" transformations happen that we get to witness weekly.
What do ‘Spiritual Partnership’ and ‘Conscious Partnership’ mean?
We use these terms interchangeably to describe the kind of safe, loving, healthy relationship (that has Higher Power Love as its basis) that we help our clients create or attract into their lives.
Is Led by Love Christian?
While not exclusively Christian, most of our women (90%+) are Christian.
The principles we work with are all backed up beautifully by Scripture, but we aren’t necessarily teaching from Scripture.
At the heart of what we teach is the concept of the love that comes from/is a Higher Power. In this work, we use the generic term ‘Big Love’ to describe this, but for most of our clients (and ourselves), this is simply God.
What does Led by Love cost?
As Led by Love is by invitation only, we only discuss pricing options with those we offer invites to.
Do you offer a guarantee?
We believe that around half of the transformation our women experience happens before they’ve even entered the program. This is down to the energy of the powerful decision they make to finally change the painful patterns they’ve been stuck in, with our help.
In our experience, while offering guarantees increases the number of women entering the program, it REDUCES the power of their transformation due to decreased commitment on their part. Good for us, you could say, but bad for them - and that’s not how we operate.
The truth is, many women have patterns of over-giving to others while putting themselves last, and are afraid to invest in and commit to themselves, which keeps them half-trying in small ways to create change, only to keep them stuck in a state of ‘one step forward, two steps back’ - until years or decades pass by in an unhappy state of playing small.
Real change comes from stepping out of the comfortable and into the unknown… which is scary!
But for those few who can take that brave step, the power of their decision makes transformation inevitable - which is the ultimate ‘guarantee’. And for those who feel nervous or unsure, we provide support and guidance every step of the way to ensure they feel empowered in their decision.
Why is Led by Love so exclusive?
For us, it’s important that we get to actually see our clients’ transformation. This means that we keep the number of enrollments small enough that we can work closely with those women, and we only invite women in who we 1) know we can help, and 2) believe will bring the right energy to the group and other women in the program. This formula is what keeps our success rate high.
Is the Clarity Call a sales call?
No. The purpose of our free Clarity Sessions is to get you clear on 1) the patterns that have been keeping you stuck, 2) the vision for what’s possible in your situation, and 3) the shifts that will bring that transformation into reality.
For those women we feel are a good fit for Led by Love we let them know how to enroll with us, with ZERO SALES made on that call.
For those who aren’t a good fit (which is around 20% of the women we speak to), we point them in the direction of something better suited.
Do you work with same-sex couples?
Our area of expertise and experience is in man-woman relationships, and the content of the program is languaged with the assumption that the woman we are working with is that way inclined. However, we have had some past clients who were in relationship with a woman, but recognized that they (the client) were the more ‘feminine’ partner, which is important for the process to work.
Does this work for open relationships?
We find that the complexity of these relationships is difficult to work with. Also, we have found that many women, when they come home to themselves and align with the truth in their heart, discover that what they really want is to be in a safe, loving, monogamous relationship.
How can your program be for both single and married women?
The internal shifts that free women from the painful relationship patterns they’ve been stuck in are ultimately the same whether that woman is currently in relationship or not.
At certain points, the program diverges where women who are married or single do slightly different exercises. But ultimately, the shifts within those women that cause her to become the light that brings a man (whether that’s a husband or a new man in the near future) into devotion are the same.
Please note: that we only work with women who are EITHER in a long-term realationship/marriage OR single and ready to call a man into their lives… but we do not work with women who are ‘emotionally entangled’ with a guy who has never actually committed to them.
Can I speak to someone who has done the program?
Yes!
We have several clients who serve as Led by Love Ambassadors and are available to give an insight into their experience with the program. These are women who you will find on the Client Case Studies page (so you know they are real!)
To apply, please complete this form.
We will review your form and pair you up with someone we feel is the best fit.
We will do this by making an introduction on Facebook Messenger.
Please note: they will not discuss pricing but will be happy to answer any questions you have.
Are your programs online or in-person?
All of our programs are online with a combination of live video coaching (Zoom) and online schools with dedicated curricula/modules. We also hold regular in-person gatherings and transformational events for our clients.
Why did Sharif stop coaching men?
Many of my male clients who were married/in a relationship came to me for relationship coaching due to pressure from their partners. In these cases, things rarely went the way they were hoping. Because his intent was coming from a place of people-pleasing, which only made her trust and respect him less. So my real job would be to work with him on the level of why he feels the need to ‘keep everyone happy’, not turn him into a Super Husband for the wrong reasons. So her hope that I would ‘fix’ her man, and his hope that she would finally love/respect him if he kept her happy, were never met. Because that’s not how these things work.
The other common scenario was married men coming to me from a place of being done with feeling weak, unwanted, and criticized. In other words, it wasn’t for her… it was ‘despite’ her (her criticism, complaints, and generally being more focused on his flaws rather than his strengths). In these scenarios, it was very common that as he grew into a confident, purposeful, kingly man… rather than instantly fall back in love with him, she would still be operating from the mistrust and resentment of the past. And in these scenarios, it isn’t long before he simply doesn’t want to be there anymore, and now with his renewed sense of self, actually has the confidence to LEAVE the relationship.
But when working with women who are in the same situation as these men’s partners/wives, I saw a completely different response. She would come home to herself, step into her ‘Queen’, get clear on her boundaries and desires, and ultimately start feeling amazing in herself. And without ANY coaching for him, he would start showing up more in the relationship, wanting to be closer to her, and even start feeling better about himself (radiant wife = “I am winning as a husband”).
Long story short: coaching him often leads to the relationship ending, whereas helping her come home to herself almost always transforms the entire relationship in a way that leaves them both with a renewed love for each other!
Will I work directly with Beth & Sharif?
Yes :)
What happens after I graduate the Led by Love program?
We have a free community exclusively for Led by Love graduates to stay connected, plus options for further coaching for those who want to go deeper and take their relationship to the next level.
How can I book a free Clarity Call?
If you are:
✅ Married/in a long-term relationship that needs to change now
or
✅ Single and ready to meet someone new (not get back with an ex or turn an emotional entanglement into a relationship)